If you have ever been on any kind of a special assignment, whether it is for the military or even in the business world, you have heard of the concept of the “debriefing” at the end of the task. When astronauts come back to earth, there is always a debriefing with NASA. When a special military op returns after a mission, there is always a debriefing of the unit. Even in business, when a company sends a group of employees on an assignment to explore new opportunities, there is always a debriefing upon their return.
These debriefing sessions are conducted to glean what knowledge
can be gained from those who were involved with the mission, either the mission
into outer space, the mission into enemy territory, or the mission to explore
untapped potential for business. It helps in the training, the planning, and
the preparation for what might be the following steps.
But the debriefing is also very important for those who
actually were involved with the assignment itself. It is important for the astronauts,
it is important for the soldiers, and it is important for the business people. During
the actual performance or the execution of the task, the busyness of what must
be done while involved with the project often takes up all of the time for the
people involved, and all of their mental and emotional energies. They have
little time to self-assess—little time for thought at all. They are just trying
to get things done! Often it is mostly their training that determines their
actions, not that they necessarily had time to think things through.
Debriefing in the Church
Although we do not often think of the concept of debriefing in relation to the church, it is also important in many of the tasks that we do. Since I have been involved with the work of the church mostly in terms of foreign missions, I think of the debriefing concept in relation to this type of work when returning from other countries.
When Vivian and I led teams of youths on short-term mission
trips, we always had a day or two of debriefing at the end. We wanted to know
what the team members thought of their summer in this work. We wanted to know
how they had benefited from the work, and how they thought it might have been
better.
As their leaders, it was important for us to learn these thoughts
that they had, but it was also important for them as team members. They needed
time to step back from the daily tasks that they had been given, and assess
their own impressions and feelings about the summer.
Debriefing from the Kenya Trip
Larry, Vivian and I have just returned from what we could
call a “special mission op” to Kenya. It was a very meaningful trip for all of
us, and I think especially for my “butler” Larry and for “Mum Vivian.” For both
of them, it was their first trip to Kenya and their first time in Africa. It
was also a very meaningful trip for me.
During our time in Kenya, we were very involved in what we
were given to do. Speaking personally, even my “down time” at the hotel was mostly
taken up with tasks involved with the trip. I was simply trying to get
everything done in the short time that I had there.
Our journey home was long. My mind was a little bleary when
I figured out how many days or hours it was from the time we left our hotel
until we stepped onto our front porch, but if my counting is correct, it was
about a 68-70 hour journey. Thankfully, Vivian and I both slept pretty well on
our flight from Nairobi to Amsterdam, and we had one nice night of sleep in St.
Paul at the house of Vivian’s sister and her husband, so we were able to arrive
home a bit rested.
But as I write this, it is Thursday morning. We arrived home
last evening. Even with many down hours on the plane and waiting in airports, I
am still going through a bit of a personal debriefing period.
What was it on the trip that was most beneficial? Was there
anything that I wish I would have done that I did not? What could have been
better? Did I do anything that was not necessary or even anything that was
hurtful? Are there any regrets about any particular way that we planned our
visit and how we carried it out? Now, after returning home, what is the next
step in the development of this work in Kisii at the orphanage?
The questions keep coming, but from experience, I know that
if they do not get answered soon after returning home, they tend to be
forgotten. Events and responsibilities at home soon take up any extra time. I
immediately am surrounded with many responsibilities.
Mission trips are not vacations. They are not a “get-away”
from daily life and for rest. On any mission trip in which I have been
involved, and even in my trips for the work that I did for most of my career in
missions, my trips to other countries were more work for me than when I am
home.
It is when I return home that I can rest. It is when I am home that I can afford to take time to consider all that has happened. It is then when I do my debriefing.
The First Short-Term Mission Trip
In the book of Mark, chapter six and beginning with verse seven, we read the following account:
Then Jesus called
the Twelve to Him and began to send them out two by two, giving them authority
over unclean spirits. He instructed them to take nothing but a staff for the
journey—no bread, no bag, no money in their belts— and to wear sandals, but not
a second tunic.
And He told them,
“When you enter a house, stay there until you leave that area. If anyone will
not welcome you or listen to you, shake the dust off your feet when you leave
that place, as a testimony against them.”
So they set out and preached that the people should repent. They also drove out many demons and healed many of the sick, anointing them with oil.
If we look at this experience of the disciples as what we in
these days would call a “mission trip,” we might learn something about our own idea
of what a mission trip should be. This experience of the disciples was not a
trip for the benefit of “seeing new things,” or having some kind of “exciting
experience.”
The account of this trip is also given in the book of
Matthew, chapter ten. In that account, we read more about the instructions that
Jesus gave the twelve before they went off on their trip:
“Behold,” Jesus said to them, “I am sending you out like
sheep among wolves; therefore, be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.
But beware of men; for they will hand you over to their councils and flog you
in their synagogues.”
Jesus then continued:
So do not be afraid
of them. For there is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, and nothing
hidden that will not be made known. What I tell you in the dark, speak in the
daylight; what is whispered in your ear, proclaim from the housetops.
Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Instead, fear the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell. (Verses 16-17, 26-28 BSB)
Jesus told them many other things as well. If you read all
that Jesus told them in the Matthew account, you will see that this was not a
“get-away” for the disciples. It was not a time for some relaxation.
“When they persecute you in one town, flee to the next,”
Jesus warned them.
Indeed, after hearing all the warnings that Jesus gave them
about what they might experience and endure on the trip, I wonder if any of the
disciples may have had second thoughts about going.
If they did, it did not keep them from obeying their teacher
and master. They all departed, two-by-two, on their separate journeys.
“So they set out,” we are told, “And they preached that the
people should repent. They also drove out many demons and healed many of the
sick, anointing them with oil” (Mark 6:12-13).
When the disciples returned back home, they may have been
excited about the experiences that they had, but I am sure that during their
journeys, they had had little time to assess their time away—little time to
think about all that was transpiring.
We continue to read, “The apostles gathered around Jesus and
brought Him news of all they had done and taught.”
What was the response of Jesus to all that they reported? He said to them, “Come with Me privately to a solitary place, and let us rest for a while.”
What Happened to John the Baptist
Jesus saw the need for a time of debriefing for these
disciples of his—a time of quiet to consider all that had happened. Actually, Jesus
himself needed some time alone, for not all had been peaceful during the
absence of the disciples. Controversy was continually building concerning all
that he had been doing.
King Herod also heard about what the disciples of Jesus were
doing. He heard of the growing fame of Jesus. He had heard that some of the
people were saying that they believed that Jesus was actually Elijah, returned
from the dead. Others were saying that Jesus was a prophet, like one of the
prophets of old.
But what seemed to especially worry Herod was the fact that
many believed that Jesus was none other than John the Baptist who had risen
from the dead. That was why, they said, Jesus had such miraculous powers.
This idea that Jesus was actually a reincarnation of John
the Baptist especially bothered Herod, because he was the one who had given the
order to have John beheaded. He gave this order, because at the time, he had
flippantly given his oath to his young step-daughter to grant any wish that she
had. Because the girl’s mother hated John the Baptist, she told her daughter to
request John’s head delivered to her on a platter.
The king was grieved because of this request, and filled
with great sorrow. He himself had been offended by John, but he did not
necessarily hate him. But because he was ashamed to go back on his word in
front of his guests, he ordered that the deed be done, just as the girl had
requested.
And now King Herod was hearing the rumors that many believed
Jesus was actually John risen from the dead. This worried the king, as well as
again bothering his conscience because of the evil deed that he had allowed.
Controversy around Jesus had been steadily on the increase, and now it seemed
to be accelerating.
Besides that, people were increasingly coming to Jesus with their requests for healing or for other provision. “Jesus did not even have time to eat,” the writer Mark tells us.
The Call to a Quiet Place
When the disciples returned from their mission trip, they
were filled with many stories. They reported to Jesus all that they had seen
and what they had done, and what they had taught the people.
“Come with Me privately to a solitary place,” Jesus told
them. “Let us rest for a while.”
Jesus saw the need for debriefing. He saw the need to move beyond the simple reporting of the facts of the mission trip, but saw the need to learn what the impacts were of those actions, and what affects. He practiced it in his own life.
After the feeding of the 5,000 for instance, Jesus did not
quickly move on to the next activity. After he sent the disciples away by boat,
he himself went up on a mountain alone to pray (Matthew 14:23).
We are also told of one specific evening when Jesus was in
the house of Peter. Peter’s mother-in-law was sick in bed with a fever. Jesus
went to the house, took her by the hand and helped her up. Her fever left her.
After the mother-in-law was healed, people began to bring to
Jesus all of the village who were sick and demon-possessed. In fact, the whole
town gathered at the door. He must have been occupied for hours, healing many
who were ill with various diseases and drove out many demons.
But the next morning, after what must have been a very
tiring evening, Jesus did not decide to sleep in. Rather, early the next day,
while it was still dark, Jesus got up and slipped out to a solitary place to
pray (Mark 1:32-35). He saw the need to be alone.
Also, when Jesus was preparing for the important decisions
of choosing his inner circle of twelve disciples, he went alone up on the
mountain and spent the night in prayer (Luke 6:12).
In fact, the writer Luke tells us that Jesus would “often” go off by himself to pray (Luke 5:16).
We today live in a day of distractions. Never are we far
from our cellphone, in fact, our phone is almost always in our pockets. It is
impossible to allow yourself to go into any kind of deep thought when the phone
is continually awakening you with someone trying to call you, or notices of
something coming in, or something else to catch your attention.
When we do sit down alone, it is often to watch something on
TV or to play some mindless game on our computers or scroll endlessly through
some social media site. We have learned to pack our lives with activities and
distractions, but we have forgotten how to sit in silence with ourselves and
with God.
Probably most of you can remember as a child, lying on your
back on the lawn and looking up at the sky as the clouds formed shifting shapes
of animals as they lazily passed overhead.
Perhaps you remember sitting by a lake or a stream and
quietly tossing pebbles into the water and watching the ripples.
We would not classify any of these quiet activities as
“debriefing sessions” after a difficult task, but they were practices in
enjoying the quietness of life in the midst of many activities.
It is a practice that would do all of us good to remember.
Regain the beauty of quiet moments. Learn to listen for the voice of God.
Return to your
rest, O my soul, for the LORD has been good to you.
For You have delivered my soul from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling. (Psalm 116:7-8).
The work of righteousness will be peace; the service of righteousness will be quiet confidence forever. My people will dwell in a peaceful place, in safe and secure places of rest (Isaiah 32:17-18).
In repentance and
rest you will be saved, In quietness and trust is your strength (Isaiah 30:15).
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